First Date Questions

First dates can be exciting, and yet, a bit jittery, especially with the list of date questions everyone’s armed with these days!

Over the years, all of us have had dates and have had to face a barrage of questions ranging from the mundane to the obnoxious!

The last thing you want is for your date to feel like they’re being judged in a job interview. No one likes that!

The date questions

Depending on the way your date answers these questions, you can have an idea about them and find out if they’re what you’re looking for.

Question #1 Do you enjoy your work?

Pop this question in while you’re speaking about your date’s work. How does your date answer to this question?

In life, we all face a lot of hurdles and difficulties. And we have two kinds of people, the whiners and the doers. Whiners whine about everything, and yet do nothing about it. While the doers, obviously do something about it.

If your date whines about their job, who’s to say they won’t whine about your relationship in the later years? This question can help you understand what kind of a person your date is, and how they cope with difficult issues in their life.

Question #2 What do you do when you’re having a tough day?

You see, these are simple questions and you’re not going to put your date in a spot by asking these questions. And yet, they can reveal so much about their life and their attitude towards it.

Every now and then, we all have to deal with shitty days, let’s face it. But how does your date cope with it? Does your date jog the frustration off, watch a few movies at night, order a big take out, or do they like to lock themselves up and spend some time alone, contemplating *plotting revenge* about it?

So if you both ever become an item, are you both going to deal with the difficulties in life together or will your partner just withdraw into a shell?

Question #3 What do you do on weekends?

A very simple question to ask on a date, but one that is very revealing.

Weekends are that time of the week when you don’t have to work or worry about anything, and it’s all about doing what you like. It’s that time when you indulge in activities that really give you joy. So what does your date like doing on weekends?

And there we have it, the date questions that can make or break a date. Remember, a happy date isn’t about reciting a list of questions to ask on a date, it’s about having a great conversation with each other.