Have you been searching for people who share your passion? Finding people who you can get along with isn’t easy. But finding people who have the same interest and can totally click with you? Well, that’s ever harder. But we’ll always keep trying to find these people because sharing your passion with someone can be so meaningful and rewarding. You get them and they just get you. It’s also a great way to build and strengthen a bond. Now, if you have been wanting to find like-minded people, here are Secrets to Attracting Like-Minded People.
Start By Liking Yourself First
This is definitely the most important step you need to think about. The real secret to attracting anyone is to like yourself first. And to do that, you need to be kind to yourself and start noticing the wonderful qualities you possess. Feel good in your own skin and once you do, others will feel good to be in your company too. But here’s the thing, if we want to like ourselves we have to earn our own respect.
Try this: Dr Alex Lickerman, author of Happiness in this World says, “Think right now of your favourite person and ask yourself, what is it about them that attracts you the most? Odds are it isn’t their physical appearance or their accomplishments but rather their magnanimous spirit; the way they treat others. This is the key quality that makes people likable, even to themselves. Treating others well, it turns out, is the fastest path to a healthy self-esteem.”
Discover What Excites You First
Before you can start attracting people who share your passion, you will need to figure out what you’re passionate about first! Do you like sports? Travel? Or are you into Art?
The easiest way to pin this down is to realise what you spend time thinking and dreaming about the most. Once you’ve nailed that, finding your kindred crew will be easier.
Try this: Join a class or a community that can help you explore your passion. Often, the people who pursue the same passion tend to have more things in common. There have been many people who have found their soulmates and close friends through hobby clubs or classes. Remember, birds of a feather often flock together.
Be Brave, Take Action
Well, if you really want to find like-minded people, you can’t just sit, wait and hope they’ll come to you. If you want it to happen, you have to be brave and put yourself out there. There’s no time for fear of rejection. If you want something you’ll have to go and get it. Besides, what’s the worst that can happen? You get a “no” to an invitation, you move on and try again!
Try this: If you’ve found people you think are aligned with your passion or share the same hobbies or likes, make a move. Ask them out for coffee or to join you at a class or event you know they’ll appreciate. You will be surprised, when you put yourself out there you will magnetise the right people into your world.
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